Kissing

Kissing

This is a complete guide on how to kiss like a pro

1 Clean your mouth, lips, tongue and teeth. Cleanliness is important – this is the first contact you make with the person whom you are going to kiss. If this is not sitting well with them – mentally they are going to want to withdraw from kissing you.

Brush your teeth, top of your mouth, sides of the inside of your cheeks, back of your teeth, under your tongue, top of your tongue and then swirl with water and do it again. It would be a good idea to use mouth wash -  preferably Listerine – yes you may say it hurts and stings – but that is the alcohol working and killing all those dirty bacteria’s as the mouth is the most bacteria prone part of your body – more than you anus

2 Make sure you and your kissing partner are in a relatively comfortable position. If you are not – you will be straining to get into a comfortable position when kissing and this can mess up the first initial kiss.

3 Hold your kissing partner in the most loving and gently way or brush their body parts gently, like the side of their face or hips.

4 Move your faces close to each other; avoiding bumping noses, remember at the right tilt your lips will meet before any face part on each of you. Once those lips have met there is no need to push any further.

5 Your lips have met, now begin to kiss gently, moving away and looking into their eyes and then kissing gently again whilst touching their face or body lightly.

6 Complete kissing each other gently until you feel your partner is relaxed enough. Kiss closed lips to closed lips, little gently bits of their top or bottom lip and then kiss closed lips to closed lips again lightly breathing to show them you are really taking in all the pleasures and are enjoying it.

7 Then start to draw your mouth open; run your tongue lightly across their lips and then go to a mouth kiss them with your mouth lightly open and they should respond opening their mouth with their tongue.

8 Your kissing partner naturally should return the same kiss, now you are in the midst of beginning the French kiss to what people take to being the French kiss, tongues connecting with each other. Now you should meet the same level of tongue interaction with your partner, connectively flicking your tongue on theirs.

9 After this has been initiated you may start to explore their tongue more by sucking lightly on it and then going into a lips to lip kiss and then licking the tongue.

10 Now you have both comfortably explored ach others tongue – you now should go for a more lengthened tongue kiss running over each other’s tongue for a longer time flicking whilst lips to lips , as if you were licking the top of a ice lolly.

11 you may decide to explore more of their mouth-like the top of their mouth but this is something that they may find peculiar and may hold you to making a mistake of being a bad kisser but the top of the mouth is a very sensitive place – try now licking the top of your tongue and then imagine doing it to someone in the midst of kissing. Umm, yes very sensitive.

12 Now continue the motion of tongue connectivity and then going back into a lip to lip based kiss and then going again. You have mastered the art of kissing now – so practise makes perfect and mentally wanting to kiss your partner will make this much ease for you both.