Bedroom Tips

How to touch to drive your partner wild

The touch of someone during or prior to sex can open up energies impossible to explain to someone who has never experienced the right touch. In both woman and man it will drive them wild. Of course everyone takes to touch in different ways; during passionate sex some will love the soft sensitive sex whilst some will love the medium to hard touch but still on a sensitive level.

How important is touch

Your female partner enjoys your touch as much as you enjoy a sport or hobby. Depending on your woman and the level of your relationship. It is important to both sexes but more towards the female. You regularly touching her throughout the day show affections and convey energies that without speech can put her whole mind at rest just for a few seconds.

Some female partners are not yet accustomed to being touched only when having sex and touching them through the day may convey signs that want sex or she may feel very reserved towards your touch until she knows you well. Some women are completely in disgust as to you touching them throughout the day and only mind it when having sex. This is most probably due to trauma, cold upbringing, sexual abuse or not having partners that showed this emotion; unless it was for sex. Some or all of those things have pushed them to the point where they believe that this sensual, natural, pleasure of touch only has one answer to it and that is sex.

Women that accept touch; depending on their level of shyness, touch is a warmth, pleasure and acceptance especially if coming from someone they really do like and the level of their relationship calls for this.

How to touch your partner

We will now advise you on how to touch your partner. From sensual touches that involve your eyes, styles of sensual touching and thoughtful touching.

1 Touching each other more. If you touch your partner considerably a lot already or have never done and touch is welcomed on both your parts and sometimes one of you ask for more touch or when one does touch each other that day you are much closer to each other than other times. It is time for you to touch each other more.

The level of bonding and emotional connection energy that is formed via touching is amazing. To a woman it brings up feelings of how she feels bout you, sensations, love and security form you. To a man it makes him feel wanted, loved by you, proud and makes him want to secure you more.

Before you start to touch each other more; depending on the level of your relationship, mutual caring for each other - You may want to start lightly touching your partner more and then increasing it as you watch their response. Advise that you want to touch each other more – in a lot of relationships I wouldn’t advise on this, if you have a more muddle cuddle relationship then you telling your partner he or she won’t mind – but in some this may seem funny and in others that maybe you have started to go through a down spiral in your relationship you telling your partner this and keeping to your word will show how much you care.

2 Touching whilst looking into their eyes. This powerful way of showing more emotion at any time when touching your partner in any way will have a hold on them and grasp their feelings towards you in a great way.
Make eye contact with your partner and hold it for long. This is something you should do a lot when touching, more time when you do touch your partner naturally it will cause them to look up at you sometimes and they will look to make eye contact.
Try not to look at them overly long and have a natural thought towards them that will allow your facial expression to convey exactly how you feel about them.

3 The different ways of touching. There are many ways of touching. Not simple making skin contact with your hands on your partner. You touch can show, sensual, romantic, sexual and secure feelings. You’re going to have to find what kind of touches at the right times gets the best feeling expressions out of your partner.
When doing this you need to pay attention, but not serious attention – better to naturally take in and not make them feel like an experiment.
Here below are the types of touches that you should share with your partner

• Tips of fingers – your tips of fingers are very sensitive when ran over your partners skin. It can either tickle them or if done with the right lightness in a smooth way can stimulate them in a very sensual and romantic way. Is also good to privately relax them.
• Stroking with your hands – stroking your partner with the inside and outside of your hands lightly just above the top of their skin.
• Holding securely – holding your partner securely and then lightly letting go of your grip and rubbing their skin with your hands, fingertip or thumbs and then securely holding them again. All this whilst making sensual and good thoughtful eye contact.
• Running your hands through their hair or scalp – running your hands over and through their hair is a very sensual kind of touch. This can send them into a world of their own and make them feel so light headed. You can maintain eye contact partly doing this but if they really enjoy it their eyes will close and head may even roll around in a different kind of way you have ever seen your partners head go.

Touching whilst thinking real sensual thoughts – Touching with any of the kinds of touches above or any real kind of touching whilst looking into your partner’s eyes or thinking such real and happy thoughts about them; will make your touch feel something else that will ignite a spiritual passion between both of you. Believe it or not – just try and you’ll see what I’m talking about.

This is enough about touching to give you confidence about what you have been doing already or make your bedroom tips skills go up that notch that will make your partner feel more warmed to you.